Since Marlisse has a new boyfriend, she seems to be sexually insatiable. Whereas Peter and she actually don’t do anything special.
Marlis (40), relationship with Peter (40), mother of Fina (12) and Milano (8):
“Shortly after my divorce, I got a tour of a working relationship in a location unknown to me. I actually created a certain picture of him on the phone. His name was Peter, he was in IT and I assumed it was a huge goat sock.
In real life, he turned out to be a very cute and attractive guy with whom I immediately felt a sexual flick. I heard through another colleague that he was also single. Provide this perspective. However, it took another year before we got back in touch. I was so busy dealing with the divorce and lived with my ex in the same house for a while, I wasn’t luxury to start dating.
“I lived with my ex in the same house for a while, and I wasn’t classy to start dating”
But Peter stayed in my head. We became friends on Facebook and I noticed some interest on his part as well; I like more and more of my posts. Once again, I invited him with an excuse via Messenger to have a coffee somewhere together. Because of the lockdown, that became a beach walk and coffee drink. It was early 2021. More dates followed and a spark erupted. Since then, we’ve been in a long distance relationship that often happens on weekends because of my kids.
I’ve been with my ex Guido for eighteen years. We’ve known each other since we were 21 and have two kids. I was the one who wanted a divorce. We no longer get along, we both have evolved completely differently over time. I am ambitious and active in associations and networks. Guido was a committed father, but he was very introverted and boring and was not my partner at all. Worse, all the attraction eventually vanished. We only do this on holidays and weekends.
I struggled with my decision to divorce. We don’t want to destroy our family. But over the last weekend we spent away without children, in a hotel in Maastricht, I clearly felt we had to stop. Guido saw the picnic as an opportunity to make old-fashioned love again, but I couldn’t bring myself to do it. I realized that I really didn’t want to have sex with him anymore, and I didn’t want a marriage of convenience. Divorce seemed the only option.
This attraction is very strong for Peter. I was immediately a hotel guest. I still feel like a teen in love when I walk next to him or sit on the sofa. It took a while before we actually shared a bed. On first dates he always came home at the end of the evening.
I once stayed neatly in his spare room during a curfew. I didn’t necessarily need it, but it turned out that Peter was a gentleman who wanted to wait for the right moment. This came a few days later, when he ate with me. I didn’t have an extra room for him and that night we shared one quilt and finally had sex too.
“After eighteen years, I had to get used to a different masculine body”
Eighteen years later, I had to get used to a different male body. I found it exciting: I’m no longer the youngest and my body isn’t so tight after two kids. Nor did I dare completely expose myself those first times. It took me a while to tell him which buttons gave me the final peak and what I liked.
Now I’m so madly in love with Peter that I can’t get enough of sex with him. As soon as I snuggle him in bed, I get excited. Either in the morning or in the evening. Also because I’ve slept naked since I knew Peter. This is very beneficial for your sex life. You are in the mood for faster.
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I share parenting with my ex-boyfriend of our twelve and eight-year-olds. That’s nice, because it means I have all the time for Peter on the days they spend with him. At first, we were doing a 12 hour sex marathon when we saw each other. Longing for each other caused insatiable lust.
This is still the case and we have quiet sex six times a weekend, but we do more activities outside of the bedroom. Have a nice breakfast, go for a walk or he will cook for me. I recently introduced him to my children. This allows us to visit each other automatically. I don’t feel comfortable with Fenna and Milan around, but on Sunday mornings they often play in the basement and then we can go about our business undisturbed.
Home, Garden and Kitchen Sex
Making love with us begins with a long foreplay of kissing and cuddling and lasts for an hour. The special thing is that we don’t do anything special at all. Real sex in the house, garden, and kitchen, just as I was with my ex. Not necessarily different positions or traits. But the chemistry is much stronger, and Peter almost always manages to reach the peak. I don’t need games at all. Perhaps due to modernity, who knows it will come someday.
“I lie like a starfish in bed, pure to receive”
Between the sheets, Peter is a true giver. Sometimes I feel very negative next to him. I lie like a starfish in bed, pure to receive and consume. He loves oral sex, is very excited to please me and says he enjoys it when I’m having a good time. I would sometimes ask him if there was anything he was missing from me or me. But so far there have been no special requests.
We once talked about fantasies as a trio. He was open about it if it happened this way. I don’t do that at all, I have more than enough with him. A serious topic, so I quickly stopped talking about it.”
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This article appears on Kek Mama 08-2022.
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